Top 3 personality traits you would avoid in a partner

[SophieLakeside]

What are the top 3 personality traits that you don't want to see in a potential partner?

Mine are:-

1. Dishonesty
2. Arrogance
3. Selfishness

Yup those are my top 3 too, and all are definitely red lines for me.

But I'd have to add a fourth being lack of financial awareness/control which is just as big an issue as the other three. Couldn't be with someone who wasn't careful with money and/or wasted it on stupid things like gambling, drugs, smoking, excessive drinking/socialising, or even just buying expensive coffees/snacks when there are cheaper options easily available.

Following that, my fifth would be anyone who took drugs, gambled, smoked, or drank/socialised excessively.

Depression
Anxiety
Meanness with money

Selfish.
Lacking understanding and empathy for others.
Attention seeking.

Yes agree

Any addictions.
Being crap with money.
Neediness.
Believing gender ideology.
Crossdressing or other fetishes.
Anxiety or phobias about things that aren't scary, like the dentist or spiders.

Low mood and negative energy
dishonest
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Laziness
Dishonesty
Unkindness

In all honesty, I find bad character traits tend to come in clusters so just one serious bad trait of any kind is enough to put me off these days. However

Bad temper
Self-centredness
Lack of accountability

tend to be the first to show up.

Selfishness
inconsiderate
Argumentative

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Jealousy.

Voting for Reform
Low libido
Dislikes animals

Unkindness
laziness
tightness with money

Impatience
Irresponsibility
Insecurity

Irresponsible with money
Poor work ethic
Depression/anxiety

Also adding:
Undomesticated
Sexist

Narcissism

aka

self centredness
cruelty
meaness

• Pretty much anything that ends in "ist" or goes along with those labels (sexist, racist, classist)
• Any type of bully/ picks on those in a weaker position
• Falsely represents themselves or others for social gain (e.g. claiming to be single when not, or generous when actually taking advantage of others, claims an ex cheated when it was them)

Mean with money
Arrogant
lazy

Totally agree.

Selfishness
cruelty
infidelity

Liar
Poor hygiene
Arrogant

Oooo I can play this game as my husband has turned out to have all of these…!!

rage

dishonesty (covers infidelity and financials)

Reckless behaviour (sex, drugs, drink, gambling, drink driving)

obviously none of these were apparent before marriage and kids…

Bad hygiene
bad tempered
A liar

Inability to : take criticism, say sorry, laugh at themselves

Materialistic
Extrovert
Drinker/drug taker