I don’t know if I can explain this well but I’ll do my very best. I’m just back from a girls trip with my sister and a mutual friend my sister and I would travel together quite frequently. We’ve been on 2 other holidays with the mutual that have gone quite well My sisters behaviour on this trip has absolutely baffled me She huffed the whole holiday and when I asked what she wanted to get up to refused to tell me, refused to make any plans (she had been to where we were twice before so I knew she had places in mind) I spent the whole holiday thinking she wasn’t talking to me but it turned out she actually wasn’t happy with the MF because she felt that the MF wouldn’t be willing to do any of her suggestions but she didn’t actually make any suggestions There was one day we went somewhere and instead of saying “there’s a lovely view up here or I’d like to go here” just had us wandering around until we had enough and stopped in a bar for drinks. It wasn’t until after the holiday she said oh I’d of liked to have done this but I knew MF wouldn’t want to. How did she know, why couldn’t she communicate this with me why would she not just tell me what she wanted to do, including other activities and I would have organised it. Does anyone understand this concept she has in her mind maybe explain what the thought process is… I don’t know if I’ve explained it well she does have form for things like this. I will say when we’re away together we usually just say yes to what the other wants unless we have a better idea