When I first started school, my family was told I seemed developmentally delayed and should be tested. I was diagnosed with dyslexia, but ADHD was also suspected. I was referred to a doctor, but my mum chose not to follow it up at the time because they were pushing Ritalin, which she felt uncomfortable with. After that, I was just treated as dyslexic.
Even with a lot of extra support at school, I struggled badly. My reports always said I needed to concentrate more, get organised, stop fidgeting, and pay attention. I also found friendships hard and always felt different, so I copied other people to fit in.
As an adult, I still struggle with overwhelm, forgetfulness, disorganisation, impulsiveness, and sensory issues like certain textures in food and materials. Since having a baby, everything has felt much worse. It’s affecting my relationship as although he tries to be understanding
he’s found it difficult I’ve recently found my childhood notes and I’m now looking into getting a formal diagnosis.
If it does come back as ADHD, has anyone found medication helpful?