The Christmas Tree
Wednesday, December 3rd, 20081. December Sunshine
2. Decorations
3. Marvellous Him
We went to The Beach. Sheltered from the bitter prevailing wind, it was paradise. Cold, but spectacular. Blue sky, blue sea, bright sunshine and crisp fresh air. We shared it only with about 20 dog owners and their hounds. And a couple of old ladies in swimsuits and hats having a dip in the sea. Our party numbered four mothers, six boys aged 4 and under, one girl aged 18m and one old sloppy dog. The other dogs stayed down by the water (for a change.) The boys stayed up on the sand (for a change.) The sloppy dog didn’t try and hump any of the other dogs (for a change.) And the mad woman with the spaniel who beat the sloppy dog when it tried to hump her dog wasn’t there. So many Good Things. Son 1 aged 4y 2m was exhausted, and fell out with his best friend. Son 2 aged 14m slept for about 20 minutes and was then woken up by boys yelling. They were not at their best. I packed up to go and Son 1 played on a wooden table top. And then slid off, head-first, stuck, upside down, legs on the table, face wedged on the bench.
Son 2 roared, Son 1 whinged. I got them home and fed them lunch. Er… at quarter to three. See previous comments about how well they behave for Wonder Nanny, who has never been known to wing a meal. The Man came back and took Son 1 out to get a Christmas Tree. I put a reluctant, over-tired, Very Loud Indeed Son 2 to sleep. A tree arrived, together with a blitheringly excited Son 1. “We can’t go in the loft for the decorations while Son 2 is asleep. We’ll wake him up.” Son 1 has never seen any reason to mind if Son 2 is awake. This has been the root of a great deal of tension between him and us over the last 14m. We went in the loft for the decorations. Son 2 woke up. Nanna came round. The tree was decorated. The little boys were entranced.
And through it all, Son 2 walked. Ten and twelve steps at a time. Backwards and forwards in the kitchen, wearing his Marvellous Me expression. Wobbling round the beds upstairs. To the washing machine. On the beach, just a little bit, to show everyone what he could do. And then afterwards he needed a finger to hold on to. This is obviously confidence-gathering time. But he walked for Nanna, he walked for The Man and he walked for Son 1. He cuddled Son 1 before they went to bed, he fell asleep almost straight away, and he’s (so far) stayed asleep. Mmmm. Is it possible that this Walking Thing might sort out the Sleep Problems?

