There have been a few posts/news stories recently and I wanted to work some issues through with you.
- Police officers having relationships with women to infiltrate gangs or similar.
- Transgender teen tells GF he is and has always been a 'boy' when he was born with a vagina/vulva (I have no vocabulary for this, apologies to all). They are having a sexual relationship.
- Person with HIV/other STD lies/omits and infects someone.
My feeling is that if I choose to have ONS/indiscriminate sex, I'm allowed, no harm done. If someone is actively lying and I would NOT consent to sex if I knew the truth, there is a consent issue. In the case of the transgender teen, where he feels he is not lying but the other teen might feel differently, the issues are even more murky.
What do you think?