My suggested rules are:
- Written by, or performed by a woman.
- Not about love or wanting a partner or how good looking someone is.
- Must not contain disrespectful tropes (e.g. The woman who tricked a man by looking so good but acting so bad)
I can't think of many but would suggest
Madonna, Holiday or Dance
Or Mariah Carey Dance with somebody
Or Cyndi Lauper Girls just wanna have fun
There are probably others about wanting to dance. This is a bit tricky as they often imply with somebody, or the while girls look nice but really are jay naughty minxes, but I am having to stretch a point here.