Lapdancing and telling off dh's mate.

(366 Posts)
Manchesterhistorygirl Wed 02-Oct-13 17:41:54

I blame you lot. Thanks.

Last night dh's friend was telling him all about his recent visit to a lap dancing bar. I told him he and his mates were a bunch of twats and I was disgusted at them all, especially since they all have partners.

I also told dh if I ever found out he'd done the same it'd be the absolute last thing he ever did.

So my nest of vipers, thank you for giving me the confidence to handle a situation I've always found disgusting, but wouldn't have ever spoken out about until I joined here.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones Fri 04-Oct-13 03:35:03

The OP clearly wasn't a threat to anyone with more than a single braincell. So stop trying to make out it's abusive.

Yougotbale Fri 04-Oct-13 03:36:59

Sab - I haven't since the OP came back on.

What is your answer to the hypothetical?

FloraFox Fri 04-Oct-13 03:40:26

Your question is an attempt to change the subject. Further evidence of lack of perception.

Yougotbale Fri 04-Oct-13 03:41:40

Flora what would you answer to the question?

Yougotbale Fri 04-Oct-13 03:42:11

It's a different scenario on the same subject

FloraFox Fri 04-Oct-13 03:45:12

I'm not interested in your derail bale

SabrinaMulhollandJjones Fri 04-Oct-13 03:48:57

No there is no scenario on the same subject. It's very simple - you've apologised yet still claimed to be 'right.' Do you baley, still consider the op to be abusive to her partner?

Yougotbale Fri 04-Oct-13 03:50:18

Lol you don't want to answer. It's not a trick question. I'm just showing how a different perception of what was said would draw different conclusions. I guess neither answered because you didn't want to say that threats are not abusive or you didn't want to admit there was ambiguity in what was said or in the scenario.
Either way I don't mind. OP clarified, I apologised.

Flora - do you watch neighbours? (Now that's a subject change)

SabrinaMulhollandJjones Fri 04-Oct-13 03:59:25

Do you still think op was abusive bale? What we think about hypotheticals is really not relevant. You can't project hypotheticals onto the OP - no matter how much you will think it will win your argument.

This is the thread we're on - do you still think she's abusive? That's what relevant.

Yougotbale Fri 04-Oct-13 04:02:37

Not now the OP clarified. I don't think she was in this scenario.

Before, Interpreting the phrase from the original post as a threat, I did.

I can't be any clearer.

Yougotbale Fri 04-Oct-13 04:04:28

Sab - the hypothetical was my original perception. So i was seeing that if you perceived it as me whether you would draw the same conclusions?

Would you??

SabrinaMulhollandJjones Fri 04-Oct-13 04:04:39

Good.

Night night.

Yougotbale Fri 04-Oct-13 04:06:48

Would you? Answer in the morning

Night

SabrinaMulhollandJjones Fri 04-Oct-13 04:09:13

No, I can save you the trouble of logging in in the morning. I would not draw the same conclusions as you. I was going on the OP - as you you should have been - not some concocted in my imagination scenario.

Yougotbale Fri 04-Oct-13 04:10:39

Interesting.

Night

SabrinaMulhollandJjones Fri 04-Oct-13 04:11:41

Night, imagination boy.

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