I work with this guy. He's a nice guy about fifty, nice wife, nice son, "pillar of the community" type, etc. A few of us were chatting over coffee the other day and he was talking and laughing about an incident when he was at school when a female student teacher was dragged into a toilet and assaulted by a group of his mates. I expressed shock at this, to which he replied "she must have enjoyed it because she never reported it!" I just felt sick. I didn't know how to respond. I am quite cowardly sometimes - something I hate about myself. When he realised I wasn't laughing along he tried to back pedal, claiming he hadn't done it himself, he just watched. (!) The whole thing made me feel sick.
I know no good would have come of laying into this person but it just shocked me that someone I thought was a decent person could say such things. How many people do we know who think like this? Maybe I'm over-reacting.
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GetStuffezd · 29/06/2013 20:04
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