...other than run a mile from any job offer?
I thought it was a set up it was that ridiculous. I had all the usual 'are you having more children?', 'what about childcare?' illegal bollocks, that I remained non-commital about. ('Its not on my mind at this point', 'As a family we have everything covered'.)
But on top of this he said (actual quote) 'So are you a good wife? Who does the ironing in your house?'
He showed me his fingernails and said his wife had cut them, and he likes 'that kind of attention from 'his' girls in the office'.
And he spoke down soooooo much to a giggling assistant who played into all his comments. 'Oooh I would iron for my husband if I was married'. I wanted to bash over the head and shout 'why are you putting up with this pig!?'.
FFS. Writing it out is making me fucking angry. I should have said something scathing. Instead I probably just came across as a grumpy bore when I didn't laugh at his 'jokes'. I did enjoy a bit of power though. I volunteer as a breastfeeding peer supporter, and noticed he squirmed at the word. So I refered to as much and as often as I could. Small revenge though. Pfft.
Aside from the sexism it was the most unprofessional interveiw ever. They were chatting and laughing at in-jokes, and I felt so uncomfortable.
:( I feel so embarrassed. What should I do?
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What should I do about sexist job interveiw?
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MountainDew · 29/06/2011 16:46
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