I just really need to vent.
Was added by a guy I knew (and dated briefly, to my eternal shame - I was only 16 in my defence) on FB two days ago. He just posted "to the woman breastfeeding in the cafe - wouldn't you stare if I whipped it out and took a lovely, natural leak on the table."
Fucking cock.
He has just got a ton of comments MOSTLY but not entirely telling him he's a twat. So he clarifies - oh his problem isn't with breastfeeding, it's just that the woman should expect to be stared at if she's going to feed, and if she doesn't like the attention she's a hypocrite to complain about it - because complaining only draws more attention to her.
So if someones leering at you, shut the fuck up and take it, you have no right to complain.
ARGH I am just so angry. I am just going to unfriend, I can't actually bring myself to comment because I'm so upset. Good for that woman for standing up for herself. When I was new to feeding I avoided leaving the house out of fear of incidents like this. That's what the patriarchy wants. Stay out of sight, cover up, you have no right to complain if you get harassed. Christ.
Sorry just needed to let it out. Fucking wanker.
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HoldMeCloserTonyDanza · 22/06/2011 14:16
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