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I'm posting here not in Relationships because I'm more likely to trust the advice - I don't hang out in Relationships so I won't know the names iyswim plus I feel safe here.
I have a close relative who lives with a man who maimed her in an attack last year. Allegedly this was the first time he had done such a thing. He got a suspended sentence: she ran around getting everyone (ex wife, family etc) to write about what a great gentle guy he was. It was just some medication he was on that was to blame etc etc :(
In the last year he has trashed her flat when she moved to get away from him (but then invited him round but afaik hasn't hit her although she lives in another town and we see her only intermittently.
he has just attacked her again leaving her visibly bruised. She is now saying it's just a slap, he's not like that etc. He has been arrested and I'm not sure how that is progressing but I'm very worried and feel completely powerless to do anything :(
they are both extremely serious alcoholics and had been drinking heavily at the time of both attacks.
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