I need some book recommendations...

[SpringchickenGoldBrass]

Can anyone think of any books or websites that offer advice on dating/relationships from a perspective that isn't witless Rules-type sexism? Nothing too academic, but stuff that amphasises having self-esteem and isn't riddled with neurosexism.
WHile I can't go into exact details, I know of someone setting up a kind of advice service who is well-meaning but clueless enough to have recommendeed He's Not That INto You be taken seriously, so I am sticking my beak in offering helpful reading list recommendations.

[SpringchickenGoldBrass]

I'm already going to suggest Lundy Bancroft and Shirley Glass Not Just Friends. I also fancy something that is basically a sort of feminism-lite about dating etc for young women (no good recommending hard core feminism to this audicence it will just put them right off and they won't listen).