Apologies in advance-I am typing on my phone & am thinking as I type...
I was at a meeting today representing my boss (finance director). It was a regional meeting with lots of other FDs and was 50/50 men/women. Since reading Beauty & Misogyny I've started noticing women's footwear more & also their appearance. (There is one woman who attends who is just beautiful but it must take her a long time to achieve the look she has - at the hairdresser, doing her makeup very carefully..can I be bothered with all of that?)
Anyway, there was one woman there today wearing ridiculously high heeled shoes. I wondered why and then I thought that perhaps it's a desire to feel taller, rather than to give the legs a better shape or whatever reason women are supposed to choose heels. I wear heels to work but I don't choose to any other time & I do wonder if it's the desire to make myself feel taller because, if I think about why I like wearing them, feeling taller is really the only reason.
When you're up against men in suits in the boardroom, on executive teams, I think that feeling taller, and thus reducing the physical differential between the sexes, is one way that women (me) try to establish themselves on more equal terms, subconsciously or consciously.
Once you lose the physical differential, you can then compete on grounds of ability and talent. All this may be felt entirely subconsciously but I think that this is why I wear them. In the rest of my life, I rarely wear heels.
Sorry to ramble! Hope this makes some sense!
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JessinAvalon · 26/02/2011 00:22
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