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Is it acceptable to chase up evening invites who don't reply?

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purpleroses · 06/05/2014 20:28

I have about 20 people who I've invited for the evening and who've not replied. Wedding is 3.5 weeks away. It's just light food in the evening - so don't need to know precise numbers but would be good to know rough numbers. I did say RSVP on the invites (which went out by email)

Would you chase them up?

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addictedtosugar · 06/05/2014 20:34

YES!
We were chased on a wedding invite. We'd never received it. We were mortified, even tho royal mail were at fault.

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EvansOvalPiesYumYum · 06/05/2014 20:36

Absolutely yes!
Some people don't bother replying, which is very rude, but others don't receive the invitations so may think they've been left out altogether.

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purpleroses · 06/05/2014 20:40

They've gone by email. There's a few that may have gone astray I guess, but some of the emails I'm certain are correct. (In one case I asked for the friend's email so that I could send him an invite!)

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EvansOvalPiesYumYum · 06/05/2014 21:32

If they've gone by email and you're sure the email addresses are correct, then you should still chase, as they are being impolite!