Planning a small, non religious, outdoor ceremony with 14 guests and wanted to ask:
- Do we need music for going down the aisle?
- I'm not sure - given that it is a fairly tiny wedding - how many readings to have. Obviously don't want the ceremony over in a flash but don't want to milk it either!
If we did have readings the obvious people to ask would be my 2 sisters and fiance's 2 sisters. I feel if I ask one of my sisters I should ask the other. Logical thing then is to include all 4 sisters (if that's not too many), however one of my future SILs is dyslexic and would probably find it difficult (the other is really into poetry so would probably love doing a reading).
Is there a way round it without offending someone? Thinking possibly come up with two readings and two other roles so they all have something but it doesn't rely on reading, and they can choose what they'd prefer to do? What other roles could there be at a pretty small, low key wedding? I don't have any bridesmaids.