My DP and I have been together for nearly 30 years, with 2 teenage DCs and this September we are going to get married. We have decided to tie the knot for a number of reasons, mainly that we have managed to survive some very difficult situations and through it all we have remained strong whilst many of our friends of the same age are going their separate ways.
We think this is something worth celebrating and so we are having a very simple wedding in our tiny church, walking to our house and having a knees up at home with around 90 guests.
We are doing it on a tight budget and in our own way.I'm doing my own flowers, have found a simple but elegant inexpensive dress. DP is not having a best man, but our 15 year old DS will stand with him and look after the ring. No cars, no cake. I have said that I won't be having any bridesmaids, but my Mum is putting pressure on me to ask my two nieces, aged 6 and 10 to fill that role. I have tried to explain to her that we just want to keep it simple, I do not want an entourage. Also we have a 19 year old daughter who is not in the slightest bit bothered about not being a bridesmaid.
I feel I have to keep everyone happy so I am trying to think of ways to give them an important role during the service, to make them feel special without having them walk up the aisle with me.
Any suggestions? Or am I being a miserable old bat.
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Suggestions for alternative bridesmaids roles please.
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Fizzingwhizby · 19/07/2012 18:25
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