So here I am, dd is five months old and I have no intention of feeding her anything other than milk until 6 months, partly because I have eczema, and partly just because.
But in the group of local mothers I know (from antenatal classes, NCT etc) there seems to be some strange competition going on as to whose baby 'needs' food the earliest. They are heavy, they have stopped sleeping (the idea of a growth spurt, or that babies don't always sleep through, don't seem to have arrived here yet). My particular low point occurred when one other mother rang me up at 9am to tell me at for ten long rambling minutes about how her 17 week old was more than ready for food, on account of showing signs like chewing his fist and watching her eat. And here I was thinking that these were just signs of being a baby.
Gah, what on earth do I do in the face of all this nonsense? I can't say anything, because they already think I am a bit strange because I use cloth nappies and don't think the health visitors word is law. But I'm getting really bored of the implication that their babies are better or more advanced. And as for mentioning BLW, which we intend to do...
But really, I am finding the worst thing about being a mother is the constant need to squash down my opinions and not say anything at all about anything controversial. Or even uncontroversial like weaning. Either that or not have what passes for a social life. Although that's starting to seem like an attractive option. Any advice? Sympathy? Or would you like to move to the south west and be my friend instead?
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Competitive Weaning (pointless rant alert)
twocatsonthebed · 25/04/2007 11:21
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