Ok - a bit of background. I have a DD (2.3) and a DS (8 mo). DD was a nightmare to feed. HV advised starting solids at 5.5 months, due to slowing weight gain . Introducing solids made bugger all difference. In fact, if anything it seemed to worsen the 'problem'. By the time she was a year old, I was seriously stressed out by her lack of eating. Eventually found a nice HV who told me just to chill out about it. Eventually she started eating reasonably well.
So, I have been determined not to go down the nightmare puree-refusing route with DS in the hope that a more relaxed approach might encourage him to be a better eater than his sister. We've been BLWing for the last couple of months, apart from the first week or so of weaning (before I'd heard of BLW). I have on two or three occasions offered him stuff on a spoon, but he has batted the spoon away and made damn sure not to let it anywhere near his mouth.
He is very happy trying to feed himself all manner of food, but I can clearly see at the end of a meal that the vast majority has been crumbled and squished around his highchair.
Today I took him to be weighed and he's gradually drifted from 98th centile at birth to just over 50th centile. HV gave me the following advice:
Cut his milk feeds down to no more than 3 a day (DS is currently feeding on demand approx 5-6 feeds a day...some of them are small feeds)
Cajole him to eat off a spoon.
Try having two bowls of food on the go - one of something sweet like custard and the other of something savoury - and occasionally pop a spoonful of savoury food in his mouth when he's not expecting it (I am to admit that this is the sort of thing I tried with DD. I feel guilty about it and I do not want to start doing it again).
So, what should I do???!!!
Is his 'slow' weight gain a problem?
If you were me would you try to up the anti with the spoon feeding?
Should I cut down on the milk feeds (tbh, his feeds are quite short, and I really don't think he's getting much more than a pint a day...difficult to tell of course).
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BLW - serious crisis of confidence. Please help!!
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SpawnChorus · 19/04/2007 16:15
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