Have always planned to wean DS1 at 6 months (a week late actually to have a bf camping trip), but my DS1 has changed his feeding behaviour and now on three seperate occassions a HV has suggested that it could be time for something else.
LO has always been a hungry baby, - has been drinking between 11-13oz EBM for evening feed since I first began expressing when he was 4 weeks old. He has always loved his food and has always fed on the breast aggressively and focussed, not playing or using me as a dummy.
He is also very physically developed. I've never had to hold his head, and he has been able to stand supported since birth. He's not particularly fat, but he is a bit of a bruiser.
Over the past couple of weeks he has began to get very fussy on the breast. He's been wanting to feed all the time, but when I put him on he keeps pulling off (dragging my nipple) and crying and then does a quick scream and re-latches for a couple of sucks and then pulls off again.
The above is all that I have told the HVs, but in addition:
He is also a human canabal, munching on any part of my (or my DHs) body that he can get his mouth near.
I know he can swallow, because he munches and swallows both his regurgetated milk that comes back up, and flem from his recent colds.
He makes swipes at my food (but I think this is probably more out of interest than to feed).
I've been following many of the weaning threads to guide me and many suggest that there is no harm in waiting, but if it is true that he needs more than what I am giving and the battle and misery that it would take to wait, then surely it would be more harmful to wait.
One of my worries though, is that the reason for our frustrated and unhappy feeding is being overlooked if indeed weaning is not the answer.
Any suggestions gratefully received!
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3 HVs advised me to wean at 21 weeks - looking for support or otherwise
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Bethbe · 18/04/2007 20:43
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