Got to move yards :-(

[chocolatecakeystuff]

Long story short, stupidly dated the farmer that owns the yard I keep my girls at for a while, its all gone horribly wrong & I got shat on from a great height.

None of the other horsey girls want me to leave, but I just don't feel I can stay after what he did to me. :-(
Have given it a few weeks & still so hurt I can't even look at him.

I guess id better start phoning around but have a feeling he's probably muddied the water with all the locals so to speak .

[N0tinmylife]

Oh dear, that sounds pants! If you like where you are, is there no way you can just keep out of his way until the dust settles though?

[chocolatecakeystuff]

I don't think so. I'm not usually one to bear a grudge (we broke up about 8 months ago for a month or so and all was fine then)

But this time he's done something I just can't forgive, and something I think will upset me for the rest of my life. He keeps trying to talk to me on the yard & its making my life a misery. I dread going down there & only stay and chat to the girls when I know he's not in.

[Mitchy1nge]

do you want to talk about what has happened, exactly?

I really hope you find somewhere soon, things went horribly wrong at my old yard and still get an icy knot in my tummy whenever I am reminded of the place - whereabouts are you? Maybe someone here can help?

[chocolatecakeystuff]

I don't really want to broadcast exactly what happened as to anyone local to me it will be fairly obvious who I'm talking about. Let's just say he's gone beyond the typical arsehole & excelled himself to cunt level.

Have a yard in mind but they're rather pricey & not sure if I can afford to keep two there ( girly number 2 was my christmas present from him & wasn't having to pay livery on her)

[Mitchy1nge]

:( poor you, whatever happened it sounds pretty unpleasant and the sooner you are out the better?

would you consider sharing/part loan to help keep costs down?

[chocolatecakeystuff]

Yes, sooner the better.

I've got a girl interested in part loaning my big girly (the other is a 10.3 unbroken deamon pony which I'm working on bring round) but as the weather has been so pants she's not had the chance to ride her yet & as the girls a novice I need to see her ride first. Even though the big girl is good as gold she's very forward going & obviously don't want an unsuitable match


Unfortunaty the big girly really is a.hack horse only as she goes unsound with heavy work which means my choice in sharers is somewhat limited.

I guess its a possibility I could sell the deamon pony but I really can't see her being a lot of use to anyone. At least the yard I'm looking at has a school so can crack on with the work I can't do in our currently boggy fields.

[50BalesOfHay]

Could you just shoot the cunt?

[chocolatecakeystuff]

If only. :-(

[mrslaughan]

pMSL at 50's comment

It really is pants, you would think he would be hanging his head in shame rather than trying to talk to you all the time.

[chocolatecakeystuff]

Most of the girls don't know what's happened between us. As far as they're concerned he dumped me & started shagging someone else. No biggie it happens. If it were as simple as that id be hurt but I wouldn't leave. So I guess he sees no reason to hang his head.

Again tonight was hanging out like a bad smell in the barn. Just skipped out, fed and got gone in under an hour :-( missing my horsey time with the girls.

When he should have been there just over a week ago to hold my hand funny enough he was nowhere to be seen.
Does he really think that everything will go back to normal after what he did?

Found 3 dead mice tonight in the straw was so tempted to go put them inside his shoes outside the back door. Shame about the cctv .