Do you think ds is too big for dshetland? recent pic here(bear in mind he is bareback, when he has a saddle his legs don't dangle down quite so far).
He only has short rides on the lead-rein, mostly walking and the occasional trot. She always seems keen enough and one word or tongue-click from me is enough to get her trotting, I've never had to drag her along or anything like that.
But, I know he is quite a big lad now (turned 11 this week) and sits like a sack of spuds (no core strength), and dshetland is 27.
Up until now I've thought they were ok, they have a lovely bond, ds loves her, she is safe as houses and I do believe in keeping old horses/ponies going for as long as you can as long as allowances are made. However, now she is lame I've had people saying "oh well, your ds is too big for her anyway", "he can't ride her forever" etc etc, and I'm paranoid that they have been talking behind my back! I get the impression that even if she becomes sound again I'm expected to retire her and ds never ride her again. Even my sister has hinted as much.
So, am I being cruel (I would hate to think I am), or is everyone else wrong? AIBU?!
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Pixel · 23/05/2011 17:42
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