Hello, would be interested in getting some perspective on an ongoing dilemma......
DD is just 10 and 6 months ago we bought her first pony-a Welsh Section B. We dutifully enlisted the advice of her then instructor who is a keen "showing" type, I had ponies all through my childhood but they were more the pony club "do a bit of anything" kind. The pony we bought is young (rising 6) and if I'm honest a million miles from what I imagined for DD. Instructor insisted we'd be mad not to buy, DD fell in love, I caved. interestingly the original owners clearly had reservations about whether he was right for DD.
So, 6 months down the line, pony has the most beautiful temperament on the ground and he and DD have an amazing bond. But he is young and silly, although not malicious, DD has had several nasty falls and (understandably) now lacks confidence when riding him. She makes huge progress, then something happens and we're back to square one. I've spent a fortune getting other people to school him and getting DD lessons on both him and other steadier ponies. My not very emotional daughter has cried buckets since we got him.
He is an obvious "show pony", even someone as ignorant as me can see that he's beautifully put together with amazing paces. He won at NPS, PUK, county level and so on with previous owners. He could be a fun pony in a few years but he's a baby and a long way from being there yet. In the mean time I feel he's totally wasted and poor old DD gets very little riding pleasure out of having him. For example she's scared to go to camp as she doesn't trust him not to have a mad turn and TBH neither do I. Since we've had him I've realised that people with this kind of pony are usually very horsey, have deep pockets and the kids have a second pony for the fun stuff. Much as I'd love to keep him and get the second pony DH will divorce me if I go down this route! Writing it all out the sensible solution seems to be to cut our losses and sell him on to a more appropriate home? Has anyone persevered with a child's pony who is adored but possibly not a perfect match?
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Should we persevere with DD's pony?
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marialuisa · 18/04/2011 14:03
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