Our dog died December last year. He was a huge part of our life and we miss him a lot but I don't miss not having a dog, if that makes sense. My horse has gone out on a long term/forever (hopefully) lease and I'm really enjoying the freedom having only a cat (I'm a shredded mess if he sees this!! haha) On a breed specific FB forum I saw a breeder was looking to rehome a retired show bitch. I asked her for more info on the forum and I asked DH whether he would be interested in possibly taking on an older dog. The breeders of our dog who died saw my message to the breeder and they then sent me a message saying they have two litters and if we were interested we were most welcome to view them.
Chatted with DH, he would prefer a puppy even though our current house really doesn't lend itself to a puppy. Anyway, we went and looked at the puppies last Sunday and we're going back this Sunday for another look. There were three quite nice puppies that we identified as possibles but none of them made me want to scoop him up and bring him home.
So now, having had five days to think about it I've come to the conclusion that I really don't want another dog at this stage. I know part of the reason DH wants us to get one is he wants me to have company during the day (I work from home and he worries that I don't see enough people, is always encouraging me to go out with GFs etc).
We talk about our dog that died all the time, we miss him, we cry about him still and I worry that if we get another puppy we will unconsciously be trying to make him like our dog that died. Plus because I work at home a lot of the care and training will fall to me, as DH does travel for his work a bit.
Ooops, this is turning into a novel. Will stop now otherwise it will go on for pages. Interested to see what others who have been in this situation think :)
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Am I being unreasonable to not want to get another dog?
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KiwiJude · 18/07/2014 04:34
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