Best friend's dog sadly passed away last week. It was all very sudden, dog didnt eat in the morning, then stopped drinking then just lay down and wouldnt get up so took her to vet and vet found a ruptured tumour on her spleen, kept her overnight to xray but he passed away during the night. This only months after friends other dog (and this dogs daughter) died of mammary cancer. So friend is completely devastated understandably. When vet asked what she would like done with the body , disposed of or cremated, she asked for some time to think about it as she was already facing a huge vet bill but she did get the other dog cremated and felt it was what she wanted to do. Vet said she had until thursday this week to decide as that was when crematorium collected. In the meantime her teen daughter (who is giving her hell right now) told her if she got the dog cremated she would never speak to her again. Friend was distraught by this, but decided she did want to go ahead with cremation. Called vet on thursday morning to inform them, vet told her he would have to ring her back to discuss it. Vet didnt call back on thursday- teen daughter came home on thursday evening and told friend that she had gotten her father (friends abusive exhusband- separated 6 years) to call the vet and tell them the dog wasnt to be cremated! Friend called vet straight away and without realising that she knew exh had been talking to them the vet tried to persuade friend out of going for cremation, emphasising how much her bill already was. Friend, who is still in shock about the whole thing just agreed there and then in tears. She felt she had no choice as the crematorium had already collected. Her exh hasnt taken anything to do with the dog since he left, friend says its possible the vet still has his name (aswell as hers) on the records but the vet has only dealt with friend for the past 6 years And friend is the one paying for it all! I am fuming on her behalf- firstly that her ex bastard husband is still fucking with her life and secondly that the vet even discussed it with him never mind going along with what he wanted! Ive told her to inform the vet that their bill is to be sent to exh since he seems to want responsibility for it but friend just wants to let it go. I can understand why as she is just so broken down by it all.
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I am so angry about this- was this vet acting properly?
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YoureBeingASillyBilly · 22/11/2013 22:14
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