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Which dog?

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TeacakeTilly · 04/07/2012 11:30

DH and I have been desperate for a dog for years. He grew up with them so is fairly experienced. I have never had one but have had regular contact with his parents' and ones in my family. I am well used to clearing up after them as I volunteered at Dogs Trust for a while. We have researched the costs, thought through the lifestyle changes we'd have to make, and sorted out who will look after when we go on holiday (which has been booked for months).

We both work full time but only during term time. During the day we'll either pay a dog walker to come in or I will come home and do it. We have no kids, though we hopefully will in the future. The rescue place is happy with this and with our working hours. They seem to care a lot about the dogs and they are quite strict on meeting the dogs, home check of the owners, etc. We will take the dog to training classes.

There are two dogs we like the look of, both of whom were abandoned. One is a five year old Rottweiler bitch. She is good natured and lovely but can be a bit scared of other dogs so needs socialising. She is small for a rottie.

The other is an eight month old male medium size shortish haired crossbreed. Again lovely and good natured, can be left for up to four hours at a time according to kennels.

Obviously us working full time will be temporary and for most of the dogs' lives I'll be either off or have gone down to part time. Either dog we will love to bits and do our utmost to care for, and it will get lots of exercise! Would really appreciate any opinions anyone may have.

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ditavonteesed · 04/07/2012 11:54

Go for the rottie, she may have less chance of getting a home as she is older, you will have to work hard with the dog thing but I bet she is goreous.

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TeacakeTilly · 04/07/2012 17:34

Thanks. Bumping in the hope someone else will have advice too!

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FlatCapAndAWhippet · 04/07/2012 18:11

both? Grin

any chance?... if the Rottie could be socialised with the other dog they could make wonderful soul mates and also may be much happier together when you are out at work.

But if it is to be only one of them, I too would choose the Rottweiler, purely and simply as there really arent too many people that would give her a chance because of her breed and age. Sad

I have a rescue Staffy crossed with a Border Terrier, looks a total thug, he's the kindest boy ever.

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FlatCapAndAWhippet · 04/07/2012 18:11

...and we love him dearly. Smile

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TeacakeTilly · 05/07/2012 10:12

I would love both, Flatcap, but our house isn't quite big enough. Tbh I'd have taken the lot in the kennels if I could!

DH has fallen head over heels for the rottie. We are going to see her later - hope we suit each other and rescue place is happy or DH will be gutted... I am trying not to get my hopes up too much...

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TeacakeTilly · 05/07/2012 10:14

Oh and btw - any rottie owners out there with tips on how to deal with the prejudice? She's not at all aggressive but I've had a few looks of horror when I've mentioned the breed to people...

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zephyrcat · 05/07/2012 10:37

Hi, we have three dogs (and a v small house!) one of ours is an American Akita x husky, who is from a rescue and we are also fostering a German Shepard x husky for a local rescue. I would say choose carefully, take your time, do your breed research, talk to people on breed specific forums or I you have Facebook then join a breed specific group - we have found that talking to owners will teach you more than a book! Find out as much as you possibly can about the dog's background and any issues they have ... As an example if they have been hit with something in the past there may be an item that would trigger fear or aggression in them. You will unfortunately always get negativity around a rotator, we get it with our huskies (or as people seem to believe, wolves!) some people you can never change, but education is the best way. We can answer any questions about huskies and that seems to relieve the ignorance a little!! Good luck though, you're doing an amazing thing :)

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zephyrcat · 05/07/2012 10:38

Sorry, a rottie not a rotator!! Damn predictive text :)

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Tiggsybabes · 05/07/2012 10:42

We have a golden retriever who was 10 yesterday. He is a fantastic family pet (he's lying next to me now wagging his tail at me) DH works long hours & I was a stay at home mum when we got him 4 years ago. I now work part-time, so he has me around for part of each day in term time & all the time in school holidays (plus the kids obviously!) DH walks him twice a day as likes the exercise (at 6am & 8pm) so walks can be fitted around working. I take him out too in the better weather during the day, but that's just because I enjoy it. When we go away, he either stays with local friends who have a dog (& we have theirs, we help each other out) or he goes to a kennels with a meadow & stream for the dogs to spend the day in if they are friendly with the other dogs.

I had a dog from a rescue shelter before children & they were happy that I popped back at lunchtime or asked a neighbour to let her out. I then moved next door to my parents who worked part-time & shifts, so she was totally spoilt for company & walks.

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TeacakeTilly · 05/07/2012 10:44

Thanks Smile This dog was abandoned - left outside the rescue centre, so they don't know anything about it. They do quite detailed assessments over ten days or so and haven't found anything alarming - just needs a more experienced owner because she's so strong and needs some socialisation. DH had a difficult dog for a few years which his parents still have so he's used to dealing with them. The difficulty will just be convincing some people (ie my mum!) to still come over!

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Bollydarling · 05/07/2012 11:45

Get the older dog if you are planning on having a baby. Our lab was three when our DS was born & I do find fitting in a decent walk on little sleep & around nappy changes, feeds, social appointments etc. difficult. (DH out 7-7 each day & not a great outdoors person at the weekend). And I wouldn't have both a baby & a dog again if I could help it. Not sure which I give up though...

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FlatCapAndAWhippet · 06/07/2012 07:10

You will always find some people that are negative towards certain breeds, this mainly comes from ignorance. I get it with my Alf (staffy cross), it is a sad fact that follows Staffys, Rottweilers, German Shepherds etc etc.

I have never had such a warm, kind hearted dog as Alf, we have had dogs from childhood, all have been lovely but he takes the biscuit....quite literally! Grin

Good luck with her, hope it's a happy ending and she gets you.

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TeacakeTilly · 06/07/2012 10:31

We have fallen in love with the rottie! She is beautiful. DH is desperate to start getting all the doggy paraphernalia but I don't want to tempt fate. I am desperately hoping the rescue centre people don't change their minds!

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FlatCapAndAWhippet · 06/07/2012 12:38

All they are doing is checking you out, they have to ensure that, for the benefit of the dogs sanity and well being, she will not end up back with them in a week / months / years time due to incompatability. Their process is absolutely correct and protects the dog which at the end of the day is what people like you and I want.

It just doesnt happen fast enough does it, we want them with us immediately so that we can love and spoil them and get them settled into their new home. Happy days ahead. Smile

Whats her name?

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TeacakeTilly · 06/07/2012 12:46

Absolutely, and I wouldn't want it any other way. We want what's best for the dog and are glad they do it properly. We're both just impatient Grin

If I say her name I am likely to identify myself so in the interests of internet anonymity I will call her TeacakeDog on here Smile

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Ephiny · 06/07/2012 12:59

I would choose the Rottweiler every time, they're a lovely breed, and there are so many in need of sensible caring homes. A lot of people would overlook her because of age and breed, IMO they don't know what they're missing.

We have two rescue Rotties, and yes there is a certain amount of prejudice, sadly. But generally people change their minds when they meet and get to know my boys!

I hope it works out - but agree that it's a good thing that they're taking the time to do a proper assessment and work out whether you're the right home for her.

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notsoold · 06/07/2012 13:09

Hi...I have a king charles now. In the past my parents only had big breeds and always befriended owners with little breeds. Win them over and the world is your oyster..

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FlatCapAndAWhippet · 06/07/2012 14:16

ha ha ....teacakedog it is Grin

I can see you getting some right old looks in the park shouting that Grin Wink

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FlatCapAndAWhippet · 06/07/2012 14:20

I'm sitting on the sofa watching the tennis, my wonderful Alf next to me, he always lies so that he's touching us.

We're so lucky having dogs aren't we, the most loyal and loving friends ever.

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