So my daugh age 16 and her friends went to NY today on their own...with my eventual permission... about an hour in half from our home... I am worried that this will open door to increasing independence... but i didnt want her to fall into temptation of lying and going anyway if not allowed... so did i make right decision?.. please be gentle in your reply, i dont think i can take bashing disagreement.. i am looking for support and encouragement... i believe my daugh has to make right choices while away from home and yes this stresses me... She is mature in many areas in life w/ school, church, and volunteer in community/police cadet etc... but still this stresses me... ugh... maybe i just need to let go... but she is only 16.5 yet she thinks she is 25... she was in trouble as early teen but has matured beyond that, so i believe... at least i am not aware of things... other than a great interest in boys... she is going w/ mature friends to NY, three others age 16, 17, and 20.... 16 yo goes to church w/ us and is like a son to me, they are freinds only and not a relationship... they are good teens but i just am concerned... i work in protective services so i think that weighs heavy on my concerns because i have seen so many teens make wrong decisions.. i pray my teen makes right choices and continues to grow in maturity. This is just so crazy to me though, cause there is so much more access to things these days. i mean i would never be driving to ny as a 16 year old... ugh...i have an older son in college too... he is also independent and in fact living out of state where he attends college, during the non-school months... all and all i guess i just need to vent and realize they are both doing pretty well.... i am just so cautious i guess cause i know so much of what is really out there in the world.... maybe i am hitting early empty nest syndrome, LOL..anyway w/ that what r all u thoughts?
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