Help and advice needed please ladies - am very nervous, please hold my hand!
DS1, 16, is bringing his first girlfriend for tea on Wednesday after school. She's 14. They have been 'dating' 2 weeks, only seen each other out of school once - yesterday. He told me he's been invited to hers for tea next week, so I thought that we would be reciprocating the week after and I would have time to psyche myself up (thought it may have fizzled out by then!!)
Thing is, she looks from her photos like a very 'girly girl', and is apparently very quiet. I dont really 'do' girlie, we only know a couple of teenage girls who are more like our two DS's, i.e. into rock/emo music, not exactly tomboys but not pink either, IYSWIM. I am anxious to make her welcome as I would any of his friends, but am a bit scared that I won't know what to say to her, etc. She apparently doesn't get on with his mates (or their girlfriends who are also all Yr9's), in fact the whole thing has taken me by surprise to be honest, until I meet her I can't imagine what they have in common. But he obviously likes her so I don't want to either show him up or say the wrong thing, etc.
Please help me out, do I keep my distance, try and chat, what are good topics, etc. OMG, I am SO not ready for this!!
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mummyflood · 21/03/2010 12:24
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