DD is 14yo and in Year 9; has mild learning difficulties and as a result is very trusting of everybody & very easily persuaded that doing something that she knows is wrong is actually ok after all.
I have become increasingly worried over the last couple of weeks about her friendship with an older lad (will call him "B") - think he is in Year 11 so is at least 18 months older than her. She knows him because her best friend is going out with his friend, and so often when DD and her friends are going out somewhere at a weekend, this friend's boyfriend and his friend B will come along too.
DD went over to this friend's house yesterday after school (she told me "to do a homework project together" ) and when I logged into Facebook, photos came up in my photostream of DD, her friend and the two boys (I am fairly sure from last night as they were uploaded today and I don't know when else they would have been taken). In some of them they look very ?cosy?, iykwim. I am not only pissed off that she has seemingly lied to me about her reasons for going over to this friend?s house, but also worried about her relationship with this boy. I just don?t think she knows what she might be getting herself into with a 16yo lad.
I just don?t know what to do! Any suggestions gratefully received
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brummiemummie · 17/03/2010 21:23
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