Hi there - I wondered if anyone can give me some advice regarding the break up of my 16yr old dausghters breakup with her boyfriend of 4 months? We all really liked him and he seemed just right for her - then last week things started to go wrong (an old girlfriend came back into his life) and he started saying she was too clingy and he 'needed his space' and eventually ended it by text yesterday. Despite having told her earlier in the relationship that he would never do that (break up by text). He also said in the text that he still loves her but wants his freedom - and ended with kisses would you believe!
Of course she is devastated and we spent yesterday cuddling and crying and watching tv to take her mind off it. We dont understand why he is acting like this when less than 4 weeks ago - for Valentines Day - he made her a card saying that he would always care for her and protect her and he wouldnt hurt her etc etc.,
Anyhow - I'm thinking of ringing his mum and asking if we can go over tonight and speak to him face to face - not so I can shout at him - more so that he and my daughter go off for a walk so that he can explain to her and tell her to her face that it is over. Is this interfering? We do need to collect a bag of clothes from his house and take back some of his.
Is it better to try to get some closure on this or just sit it out and put it down to experience? Funnily enough - I am almost as upset as she is, when my older daughter (who is away at uni) told me last night on msn that he has already changed his Facebook status to 'single' it sort of ripped through my heart.
Any thoughts would be gratefully received.
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