My 19 year old DD did not do well in her Alevels. She took a year out to decide what to do. she worked in a fast food chain and has been there two years now. She pays board and has a car so is independent in some ways. In other ways she is like a young child. I suggest jobs or courses I see but need to motivate her and give lots of help to apply. So far she has had no luck moving forward. She has started to hang around with people from work and lost touch with old friens who went to uni 2 years ago. Its like she has lost her ambition and drive. She has started smoking and spends all her time when not working staying at various friends from work. She never wants to come home for meals or to sleep in her own bed. She doesnt have money to go out for meals or shop for clothes like she used to. She is aware that her old school friends have moved on and I wonder if she is making friends with these other people because she doesnt feel good enough to socialise with old friends. She says I nag her when she is home but I cant help it because I dont want her to be stuck in this possition forever. Any advice ? Is this normal?
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