She asked me to make an appointment. I made an appointment. I reminded her when it was time to go and she went to get ready. And then had a small meltdown when she realised I wasn't intending to go with her.
We live in a pretty small town and the hairdressers is literally 5 mins walk from our house, and I haven't gone with her the last twice that she's been. However, apparently on those occasions she arranged for friends to go and sit with her while she was having her hair cut, to avoid having to make conversation with the hairdresser and looking 'like a right saddo with no friends.'
I understand that the teenager is basically a pack animal and that it might be nicer to go with someone else, but her complete refusal to even countenance walking down the street on her own and then sitting in the hairdressers and have to make polite conversation with someone she doesn't know that well (in order to get the haircut that she wanted!) took me by surprise. I feel this is a basic social skill that she should be prepared to take on at this age... Am I asking too much??
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15yo dd won't go to hairdressers on her own
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Orlando · 22/02/2010 15:15
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