DD is 13 and in the summer told some whopping lies for attention - that she had been stabbed by her father as a child, that she was suicidal are just 2 examples . Of course she got found out and is now receiving counselling and I am endeavouring to give her more positive attention.
However she has just done it again. Claimed to new acquaintance at school via text that she had been beaten by my dh and had needed hospital treatment. On the positive side she confessed up to me so it wasn't a shock when I got a phone call from social services and from that point of view it is all sorted IYSWIM.
So dd says she doesn't know why she does it but perhaps to make herself seem more interesting to others .
I have suggested/told her that she needs to do a written apology to this friend where she confesses and then apologises and to his Mum. She is supposed to be going out for the day tomorrow with a group of friends, I have warned her I'm not so sure about it now. I am going to discuss the latest escapde with her dad and my dh.
Anyone been through this in the past? Any ideas whether the letter writing is appropriate and how about her day out tomorrow? I'm not sure that stopping her seeing her friends will actually achieve anything IYSWIM as clearly this is more of a deep seated issue to do with our relationship I suspect.
I am currently upset but calm so haven't ranted and raved at her.
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CarGirl · 17/02/2010 17:04
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