Sorry if this turns out to be a long rant - I'm feeling utterly frazzled!
A bit of background: DH was made redundant in May. He has had precious little work since, just a bit of self-employed stuff. Money is hideously tight and making Christmas nice for everyone has been stressful. I work full time in a very demanding job but am terrified of losing it so am going the extra mile all the time and am knackered by the end of each day and week. I drop DD (aged almost 15) at school on my way to work and she makes me late most mornings by refusing to get out of bed.
We have had my mum (aged 86) to stay for Christmas as usual as my brother is too selfish and up himself to bother (he has lived at his current house for 12 years and we have never once been invited there!) He came over with new wife and his MIL on 27th for a free meal (arrived at 3pm for lunch with no explanation or apology, just some crap about bad traffic which was a blatant lie - he just likes a lie in). The following day, my mum collapsed and we spent the day in A&E - she is recovering now thankfully.
Last night, the last straw was DD refusing to eat dinner on the grounds that "it tastes like shit". Quite apart from her (all too frequent) rudeness, I wouldn't give in because I can't afford to waste food and because she will only fill up on biscuits later on if I let her. I ended up literally spoon-feeding her (yeah really!) at the end of which I asked if the food had been okay really and she just belched in my face and said "there's your answer"
I'm sorry to say I completely lost it - her default mode at the moment is surly and rude and I'm shocked at her insensitivity - how does she think the last few days have been for me? Does she give a shit? I don't think so. Meanwhile DH lounges on the sofa and rolls his eyes ? (but only in the adverts so that he doesn?t miss anything on telly...grrrr)
Sorry to go on - I just need to find a way to make DD consider other people's feelings and tear her focus away from Facebook & YouTube makeup videos for once!!
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Standbyme · 30/12/2009 07:32
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