I am not sure whether this really applies just to teenagers, but I have a couple of friends who are really 'matey' with their teenagers.
I mean things like going round the shops with them and looking at all the 'young' clothes, getting quite involved with their friends (inc texting their boyfriends in a jokey way), buying them alcohol, listening to their music etc.
My DDs are not teenagers yet, but DD is getting to the stage where she is spreading her wings and getting a life of her own.
In my own mind, I can't work out where the mate/mum boundary is. I want to know what is going on in her life, but not sure that being her mate is the best/right way.
Don't think I have explained this terribly well, but does anyone get my gist?
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LightShinesInTheDarkness · 06/08/2009 11:07
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