Question as above really. DD4 is 13 and has just finished Year 8. She has mild learning difficulties, so I don't really like letting her go places without an adult, even with her group of friends who are very responsible.
Although I have let her go into town (to the pictures etc) a few times this holidays, I thought it'd be nice to invite a few friends over here so I could keep on eye on her without seeming overbearing iyswim. But apparently "Our house is boring, Mum!"
The trouble is DD isn't really very confident and so wouldn't suggest her own ideas of things they could do, so they would either just be hanging around awkwardly or I would have to suggest something for her, which would be obviously be "SOOOO uncool", lol.
The older DCs are particularly unhelpful too, one was very into makeup/magazines and that kind of thing at that age and my son just played on the computer and played football in the garden and that, neither of which DD4 is at all into. The other DD and her friends have always met up in the park or the cafe and very rarely at ours, which of course is no help.
I'm just wondering really if you could tell me what your teenage DD is into and what she might do if she went to a friend's house/her friends came round, so I can pass some ideas on to my DD.
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brummiemummie · 06/08/2009 00:24
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