He's 12, just about to finish year 7.
And I know that being cool is everything. I am finding it a bit hard to allow him to do the cool stuff, but at the same time be happy with what he is allowed to do iyswim.
So last week he asked for facebook and I immediately said no. But having just been on my own account, and nosing at a couple of friends of friends, some of his friends came up (still with me??) and it seems there are quite a lot his age on there. But then the photos of a couple of the girls who I know are 11 and 12 look about 16, but then its the age old - all his friends have it.
And today he wants his ear pierced. We went thru this when he was about 8 and it was a definite no no. But now he's 12 and i'm wondering if we should just leave this up to him, it's hardly a tattoo, altho DH will be dead against it. Last time he told him he could have one when he turned into a girl
Just typing all that I think I need to get a life and back off a bit. So, if your 12 yr old DS wanted facebook and an earring, would you let him?
Oh and we had to ban msn at the beginning of year 7 as all he did was swear at his mates and then his then girlfriend asked him if he wanted to have sex
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Ok, so DS wants an earring and facebook
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mumto3boys · 15/07/2009 22:31
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