We have just had a major panic. My DS 18, bunked off from boarding school for 2 days. He was supposed to go to a uni i/v up north but didn't turn up, or arrive back at school when expected. The police tracked him down in Kent. He gave a cock and bull story which both I and the school find hard to believe and couldn't see what the fuss is about. The school gave him money for the trip. I didn't even know he was going. He turns his mobile off so its hard to contact him. It's the end of term on Weds, and he says he will be at his father's for the first week of the holidays, but I don't believe him. When I said I wanted confirmation he went mad and said I was a control freak. Sadly we had the divorce from hell and his father refuses to have any contact with me over holiday arrangements. (His father gave me a bollocking when I rang him over DS bunking off and said I should not have given the police his number!!!) I just want to make sure he doesn't drift off to stay with friends I don't know and party all holidays as he had A levels next term and needs to revise. Is it too much to want to know where is is, expect him to stay in contact, and to put some serious revision in?? Every time I put my foot down he bunks off to his father where he has a quiet life. He's so lazy I know if left to his own devices he would do FA. He is 18 so should I back off?
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Am I a control freak expecting to know where my DS 18 is???
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largeginplease · 18/03/2008 11:55
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