Just gave DD (12) money for her friend's birthday present and told her to come back with a good deal of change from the £20 note and that we had wrapping paper at home.
She's come back with £1 change!
I think she's completely mad to spend £19 on her friends' gifts. I wouldn't spend much more than that on a small gift for my own friends.
I think she's too young to be expected to pay for gifts, but there's no way I'm spending £19 on a friend I rarely even hear her talk about. (You know, the ones who suddenly become friend's when there's a birthday coming up.)
She's said she'll pay me back £7 by doing jobs around the house. (Badly, if previous form indicates future performance in bathroom cleaning.)
What's the consensus here?
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Young teens - do you give them money for their friend's gifts and if so, how much?
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twelveyeargap · 02/02/2008 17:11
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