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Teenagers

BULLIES

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wibblyswobbly · 17/11/2007 10:23

Bloody
Ugly
Little
Lame
Imbecillies
Entering
Slapperhood

my 14 yr old dd [yr10] is being tormented by a gang of the above. all last night they had her in tears on myspace and msn, writing god knows what about her. she came home from school upset and in tears about it and i so wanted to go find them and make them cry... she's my baby.

i am so angry i want to grab the little bitches and smash their faces in, i know i cant and i dont suppose i would... but dear god they need a slap so hard.

i will be going into school on monday afternoon to cause the biggest stink that school has seen for a long time! the ring leader has just been 'transferred from another school due to problems'. well she had problems at her last school did she.... she hasnt seen me when i become a problem!! one week is all that she has done at the school up to now, my dd has been there 4 yrs with no problems at all.

i hate the fact that someone [other than me] can make my kids feel so worthless, i dont but isnt it a mothers privilage?

i really want to pull her from school for a few days but she has her science GCSE on thursday and why should i mess with her future when she has done nothing wrong?

am going to go a knock down a wall with a big hammer to take my anger out, might just draw a face on the wall before i start so when i do it for real i know where to start lol.

i know this is a bit me me me but i cant sit here and tell my dd that i am going to smash the witches faces in, gonna trample their heads into the gutters and stamp on them till they bleed!! dont think she would apprieciate that, although its tempting.

dd is ok she has other friends that are here for her, and she has her dad and myself that will die for her... i just cant get my head round the fact that its my daughter... why do they have to do it to my baby???

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Freckle · 17/11/2007 10:33

Because they are jealous, inadequate, have low self-esteem, etc., etc. The only way they can feel better about themselves is to make someone feel worse.

Can she not ban them from msn and facebook? Block their mobile numbers?

Who are the girls that the ringleader has got onside so soon after starting at that school? Can you print off what they have said on those sites? Show it to the school and possibly their parents?

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2shoes · 17/11/2007 14:46

oh god i feel for you. ds was bullied and it was horrid. I kept contacting the school and nothing changeind. in the end I went in and pulled him out for a day. amazing how quickly it was sorted.
get her to block and delet them from msn. it can be done as ds has just done this with the "darlings" on the estate. can you get her mobile number changed?#don't blame you for being so angry.

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AttilaTheMeerkat · 28/11/2007 08:56

Cyberbullying is a serious matter.

I would also say it a criminal offence to put such items on webpages. You need to contact Myspace and MSN to get this crap written about your DD pulled.

I would also inform the police in such circumstances.

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AttilaTheMeerkat · 28/11/2007 08:58

www.kidscape.org.uk/childrenteens/cyberbullying.shtml

The above also has information.

Do get the police involved.

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