Hi, my bil is 17. He is in final year at school and all going well hopes to go to university next year. He is a very quite, shy boy and doesn't seem to have any close friends at the moment.
There is a big age gap between him and his older siblings and his mother still treats him like a child. Because of this he seems to have very little self confidence. Recently his mother told me that she is going on a bus tour next year with her sister. Then she said bil would be going too! I had a look at the company mentioned and it is aimed at older people. I can't believe she wants bil to go or that he would enjoy a week on a bus with older people looking at homes and gardens. If he was my brother I would have said something straight away but being diplomatic I asked dh to talk to his brother. He told him that he didn't have to go unless he wanted to and that he (dh) would speak to their mum about it. Bil didn't really say anything so now we don't know what to do. Should I or dh speak to mil or let bil stand up for himself?
Also am I being unreasonable to assume he wouldn't want to go? Apart from being very quite he seems like a normal teenager - likes football, video games, dvds etc.
What would you do?
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suiledonn · 29/10/2007 19:56
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