Have a 12 yr old daughter whose behaviour is steadily geting hard for me to deal with and keep calm.Shes always been "difficult" fairly spoilt by grandparents and never had any interest in learning/school.
Has no interest in hygiene (had many talks about personal hygiene.bought various deodorants etc)and its still not sinking in all we get is "I don't really care" and a shrug of the shoulders,we are currently on week 6 of not brushing teeth (I know, because the toothbrush is still in her bag from staying away with relatives.I refused to unpack her dirty stuff and wash bag).Wouldnt bath unless basically bribed into it.....etc.This isnt something new,but now its getting even more apparent how unhygenic she is compared to girls of her age,I mean at 12,you know to wipe and flush etc..I feel like banging my head against the wall.
Constantly throws strops,backchats and is verbally abusive to me whether people are here or not.
I'VE JUST LOST MY COOL.......she told me to "get lost and I WILL DO AS I damn well please" in the kitchen (in front of her grandfather and her 4 yr old brother).I said I wouldn't take abuse like that from a 12 yr old and told her to go to her room.She refused for 2 or 3 minutes and I THOUGHT TO MYSELF WHAT THE F*CK AM I DOING SQUABBLING WITH A CHILD....and....yeah I KNOW I shouldn't of but I lost the plot so much my throat hurts from screaming at her.This is a contant thing...just being bloody minded and having the last word with EVERYTHING.We have had the stealing from my purse and her brother's moneybox,refusal to do ANY homework,lying...but its not new ,its just getting worse.
I'm just soooooo fed-up with it all.I'm tired of the constant bolloxy attitude and also we now have her brother thinking its funny to be backchat and be rude to me
Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....
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goinfriggincrazy · 16/09/2007 17:03
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