DS1, 15, is a lovely boy. Quiet, considerate, reliable and hard working. Clever at school and a reasonably high achiever. At the start of Yr 10 he was predicted to get mostly As or A*s for his GCSEs.
But over the last few weeks he has gradually changed - teenage hormones kicking in I suppose - and is now morose, hugely uncommunicative, can be rude and seems to lack enthusiasm for most things and people.
I came across some of his geography coursework today, that had been returned by his teacher after its initial drafting, and it was very clear not only how poor his work had been (sketchy, not finished properly, superficial, the minimum he could get away with) but also just how frustrated his teacher was with this piece of work - because he can do so much better.
We have had the same with some history coursework, which he has had to do all through the summer holidays, but led us to believe that it was a minor piece of homework. It isn't of course, because it counts towards his GCSE. He had left it until the very last minute (which we wouldn't have let him do if we had known it was coursework), and is now patently scrabbling around just to get something handed in, rather than doing a good piece of work. And this is supposed to be his best subject and the one he is most interested in!
I know that it's tough being a teenager, but I'm also very aware that this is really his one chance, and I really don't want him to mess up his GCSEs.
How can I help him? I know that I have to stay calm, and not get annoyed with him, but what's the best approach?
I have already put in a call to his year tutor today, and am waiting for her to call me back, but wondered if anyone else had been through this - either as a parent or a teacher.
I'm really, really upset about this and so want to help turn him around as quickly as I can.
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How can I *really* help my son (Yr 11) without losing it and shouting at him!
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BecauseImWorthIt · 07/09/2007 15:09
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