I have been battling with my 15 yo dd for most of her short life it seems, recently though her behaviour has become more dangerous and her involvment with the police ongoing. She has run away numerous times, was found in the company of 2 young cadets after running away, recieved a police warning for burglery/other after she broke into a shop and did some damage, recieved another waning for vandilising a local shop and now has been charged with theft of a car driving without permission, no DL or insurance, for which her ase will go before the childrens panel soon. I have been requesting Social services input for some time now and finally someone is coming out to see me , she is also drinking alcohol regulary and coming home drunk, staying out late where I have to call the police, using drugs and having sex, she recently had the contraceptive injection without my knowledge or consent. She also is rude, swears at us and her sister and bullies her sisters friends. I have another dd who is younger and becoming quite distressed about her behaviour and who quite frankly has always had her needs come 2nd due to her sisters demanding needs. I am now putting younger dd needs first and cannot do this with 15 dd with me , hope this doesn't sound too harsh but after years of this with no light at the end of the tunnel we've all had enough and now feel the best place for her would be in care. Does anyone out there know what I should expect from social services, will they take her into care or am I stuck with no support as has been the case all along.
Please don't think I'm a bad mother , I am just trying to do wahts best for my other daughter and save her from anymore unpleasentness and give her the attention she deserves.
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skye2007 · 03/09/2007 12:41
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