So this could technically be a SP issue but IMO is just a teenage one. I thought it'd be a good idea to buy DSD some driving lessons from her Dad and I for her birthday. DP had just renewed her passport and felt that she should at least raise her own money for her provisional license. I originally felt that should be down to us since it was part of her driving gift but he disagreed. She gets around 130 PCM for attending school (Paid to her not her mother.) DP gives her 25 PW pocket money and she earns (if she shows up which is once a mth) 10 per wk in wages. He pays maintenance to his ExW if course.
DSD came around tonight with no intention or money to pay for her prov license (which I thought we should pay for anyway) but as DP had insisted she find her own funds, I'm a bit that she expected us to pay. WWYD? Cancel her lessons, as she has said, until she had funds or pay it and keep quiet. My dilemma is that DP had laid down the rules (but now says he'll just pay) or would you make her pay.
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