What do you vipers let your big teens get up to these long summer nights?
Ds1 is mostly sensible, sometimes hardworking and usually pleasant. In fact, I quite like him . He's got a job working about 4 days a week and is between AS and A levels at school. Over these long warm nights he has been spending every night 'in the park' chatting with a group of friends. (Yes, he thinks I'm that gullible.) He has admitted some friends smoke weed but not him.
Anyway, he's not coming home before 2am every night and I'm a bit at loggerheads with him about what constitutes a reasonable time to come home.
His points: Mum, I'm safe, I'm sensible, it's summer. I'm almost adult.You can trust me. I get up for work. There's no reason for me to come home any earlier.
My points: (well I don't know if I have a point really. I just feel like he should be home at least by 1am unless there's a pre-planned party or something but I'm not sure why I feel that.)
So, do you have a curfew for your proto-adults? What are your ground rules for nights out? What time do yours come home on non party nights?
IBU, aren't I?
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12am 1am or 2am curfew for 17 yo ds or none at all????
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Haffdonga · 25/07/2014 14:33
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