I have a 16 yr old son. He was recently contacted on FB by his absent father he hasn't seen or heard from since he was 4! He lied to go meet him and told me after. I fine to extent, i understand why, after we talked as said "needed to do on own"had been grown up and arranged in local place and friend knew etc. we talked about it and I said "not happy with lying but understood." We agreed to be open next time. He now met him again and now told be until i confronted him. The father bought lots of stuff, gave him money!typical.. I just scared he going to get hurt and father very manipulative and was previousy aggressive etc. i cant protect him if don't know what happening. I am married, son gets on so well with step dad.. We in a turmoil. I feel absent father has gone behind our backs.. Now son is 16 he feels it none of our business and main thing he doesn't have to pay for absent years... Only by trying to buy son. All in turmoil. Don't want my son getting hurt. Any advice where thing stand re parental responsibility with a 16year old? And what can i do to help my son make this a good experience and protect him?
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16 yr old son contacted by absent father now lied to see him, any advice?
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Jude02020 · 25/07/2014 11:57
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