Five years ago my now ex husband left me for another woman. I tried to keep it amicable for the sake of our two children, but my ex refused. The children would go and stay with him every other weekend and seemed happy enough. However, once he moved in with the woman, my 19 year old daughter decided she didn't want to visit any more, as she didn't like what my ex had done and didn't like the woman. When my daughter did visit, she would come home in tears as she felt like the odd-one out there and they would just sit in front of the tv all the time. Two years ago, my son, now 17, said he was going to stay with his father for a few days. He had never returned home. Neither he nor his father told me he wasn't coming home, I rang my son but he didn't reply and tested me that he was staying there. To this day, I don't know why. His father has been no help at all and is extremely unsupportive of the situation. I never receive birthday or Christmas cards, even though I always send my son a card and gift. I used to message him every couple of months, asking how he was, telling him news from home, and saying I loved him and would always be here for him. I never got a response but at least he didn't block me or tell me not to message him. In January this year, I messaged him and said I wouldn't contact him again because I didn't get a reply but I loved him and was here for him always. I think about him every day and wonder if I will ever see him again. Should I keep messaging him, not to put pressure on him, but just general chit-chat? I just don't know what to do. I would be so thankful of any advice.
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