my two attractive teenage daughters 13 and 14 are wanting to wear padded bras as their friends are taking the mickey out of them as they are small chested, at 32b and 32a. Most of their friends are taller and generally of a bigger build and are putting pressure on them to be bigger in the chest department. I have tried to reassure them that they are lovely as they are and are sized in proportion to the rest of their body and question their friends for saying things against their body shape. This of course doesn't help as they then say that they therefore have no friends. They say in response that they feel intimidated by their friends and feel more confident with bigger chests and would rather have friends like this than no friends. I feel sad that they are so young and feel pressured to try to be appealing sexually when they are not even sexually active. They tell me I am old fashioned and that things are different now then when I was their age. Any thoughts on how to handle this without falling out with them and being told i am old fashioned?
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