First post so be gentle. My daughter and I used to be really close, she confided in me about most things and we spent lots of time together but all that changed when she started going out with her workmates - Who she had previously disliked and told me numerous times about them smoking cannabis. I wasn't happy about her spending so much time with them but I just bit my tongue. The problem came to a head over the Easter holidays, she stayed out almost every night and despite me giving her money didn't do the chores I asked of her. I was coming home from work to find her still in bed and the house an absolute tip. By the Thursday I told her she needed to pull her socks up and do what she had agreed to, she texted me that night to say she was staying at a friends, I told her to come home and get a good nights sleep as she needed to be up and ready to clean her mess. She didn't come home and stayed out til the Sunday, we had a good talk and seemed to have cleared the air.
I had a phone call from her college tutor Tuesday to tell me she hasn't been attending college, I spoke to her told her I don't want her to stay out on college nights anymore and she left and hasn't come home . She's staying with a person from work. I'm devastated, when we do talk it's just because she wants money and I feel guilty saying no so I give it to her. We met for coffee and she said she would come and clean and feed her pets everyday which she hasn't stuck to, she only comes when she wants something. I feel as though I'm grieving :( I just don't know what I can do to make things better
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Loobie1234 · 29/05/2014 11:19
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