I want to tell everyone how damn proud I am of ds1.
A couple of years ago I was seriously worried about him. He was on the verge of full blown depression and I felt he was going to retire from life outside his bedroom.
This time last year he dropped out of college having only just scraped the GCSEs he needed for his catering course. He said all the right things, I'll get a job, I'll move out at 18, I'll learn more in work,etc. well, as you'll appreciate, there's not much you can do to change the mind of a stubborn and depressed 17yo but I wasn't happy.
Update now is that he went out, got a full time job in a great kitchen that cooks everything fresh, he found his own flat and sorted his bills, spending and saving. He moved two weeks ago and the best thing is, over the last year he found his passion and purpose.
He's great company, has no qualms about asking dh and me for help if he needs it, loves to meet for lunch on his days off, especially because we pay.
I'm so grateful that he's happy and has turned into a happy, independent, decent member of society. I sometimes thought it would never happen but he's done it quicker than anyone thought he would.
Anyway, sorry for the essay but I couldn't help myself.
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TheOneWithTheHair · 21/05/2014 21:07
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